Should I set a Parental Control App as an Adult?

It can be tempting: when you feel like you can’t control yourself anymore, like you’re a victim of your phone, the idea of blocking everything using a system marketed as super-powerful might seem like the answer.

However, it’s not that simple. Parental controls are often set up to block access to certain content for kids or teenagers, aiming to protect them from potential dangers or prevent excessive time spent on specific services.

These tools are usually managed remotely (by a parent) using systems that, at times, can be a bit dubious. Many parental controls utilize technology similar to corporate tools, such as MDM Profiles.

In a corporate setting, this secures employees’ devices to avoid exposure to harmful content, restrict access to certain sites (like NSFW content), etc. For kids, parents often decide remotely what their children can or cannot access, from apps to keywords and websites. However, MDM profiles are technologies developed by third-party companies, which might introduce vulnerabilities to your device.

“MDM lets you securely and wirelessly configure devices by sending profiles and commands to the device, whether they’re owned by the user or your organization. MDM capabilities include updating software and device settings, monitoring compliance with organizational policies, and remotely wiping or locking devices” —Apple Support

Why Adults Don’t Need Parental Control Apps

That’s why we’re not big fans of these solutions. However, we understand the importance of controlling one’s usage. So, what solutions are available for adults who want to limit their time on certain apps or websites? App blockers! Here’s why we think they’re a much better choice:

#1 — More Customizable Restrictions

Parental controls are all about control. The focus is on blocking access, not improving usage habits. This approach can work in a parent-child relationship, but for adults, personal and professional constraints can quickly clash with these services.

App blockers are designed for a mature audience, with an understanding of the constraints users face. Restrictions can also be more tailored: you wouldn’t block emails the same way as TikTok or adult content. Parental controls often don’t make this distinction and apply the same treatment across all services.

#2 — Less Intrusive and More Secure

Most app blockers don’t use MDM profiles but rather proprietary technology (for example, on iPhone, these services connect to Screen Time, a technology developed and protected by Apple).

This means Apple provides the structure that third-party developers can use while guaranteeing data security. In other words, Apple prevents developers from accessing your data, controlling your phone, and other capabilities some MDM profiles may have.

#3 — Adult-Friendly Interfaces

These applications are often designed for a more mature audience, so the interfaces are more thoughtfully designed with suitable tools. There’s no infantilization or guilt-tripping features that you might find in services aimed at kids.

This may seem trivial, but imagine getting notifications that treat you like a child at work, or having to ask for permission to access apps…

#4 — More Self-Discipline and Less Dependence

Parental controls are set up by parents to block and protect. Many of these services fulfill this mission well, but they don’t teach better usage habits, only restriction. What happens once the control is lifted?

Adult-focused services emphasize learning and self-control development. They suggest that users learn to limit themselves to reduce dependency, not to “punish” but to help.